Surviving My Past Because of My Future

  Recently we had a plumber install a new dishwasher in our house.  Because he is efficient , he brought a variety of tools with him to complete the job.  Without the proper tools for each step of the installation,  the work would never get done.   God graciously blesses me with a range of rescue tools that offer comfort throughout my messy, disorganized grief journey.  My tool selection depends on what I'm feeling in the moment and the intensity/duration of the ache. I pray that this powerful tool I share here will be a helpful addition to your survival toolbox as you navigate whatever overwhelming circumstances life has brought your way.     Rescue Tool: Fix Your Gaze On Jesus I have read the story of Jesus walking on water more times than I can count (Matthew 14:22-33).  Maybe you have, too.  With each reading, my primary focus was the power Jesus possessed in being able to do something incredibly miraculous.  I was a...

  When your heart has been broken or even crushed, it’s hard to think about surviving a joyous holiday season.  At  times, you may feel shamed by friends and family because you aren’t acting as joyful as they feel you should.  After all, Christmas is such a beautiful time of the year.  Surely the twinkling lights, glowing candles, shimmering trees, and sparkling decorations are enough to put you in the holiday spirit and fill you with joy, right?  Or what about the gatherings and time spent with loved ones?  Aren’t they the epitome of where joy abounds? Trying to act joyful under pressure is nearly impossible when life as you knew it was demolished in the blink of an eye by a wrecking ball. Trouble starts with how people define joy.  Most equate joy with happiness-fun, smiles, excitement, or a warm-fuzzy feeling.   In this case, joy (happiness) often results from things such as the purchase of a new car or boat, a championship victory ...